A manifesto, of sorts

First, I’m a huge fan of Seth Godin’s blog, and his posts are ALL shorter than this is going to be.  ‘Forewarned is forearmed’ as they say, but this post is about answering the mail in some ways and that just may take a bit longer.  At least one loved one has asked me “What DO you believe?”, probably in response to me talking about what I don’t, and it occurred to me this morning that it’s time for me to say – so here goes…

I believe God (or Spirit, or Allah, or any name you use for what I’m about to describe) IS Love, in its purest sense. That’s beautiful in its simplicity which is probably why we teach it to children; it may be a great place to stop and focus spiritual education for all ages as we move forward in an increasingly diverse world. I say that as a long time attendee and teacher of Methodist Sunday Schools and participant in intensive bible studies at various stages in my life, but while it can be intellectually stimulating to dig into the origins and meanings of any great spiritual text it is not an ongoing requirement to practice the essence of them. At its worst, it can contribute to belief in a specific framework that is actually a hindrance to the right frame of mind for the truth that God is Love, or become a substitute activity for actually being out in the world and being Love, or both. The Golden Rule is pretty straightforward.

I don’t believe in heaven or hell (and I’m sure some may say that’s convenient.) As concepts they just don’t engender a loving existence, which to me means they can’t be of God but are constructs of man, and as a result are flawed. At their worst they bring forward emotions of guilt, or fear, both of which are opposites of love. When Jesus said the kingdom of heaven was at hand I believe he meant it was here and now, hence the teaching of ‘whatever you do for the least of these, you do for me’ needs to be taken to heart as we move through the world around us, right now. As for hell, there are plenty of people in the world today who are suffering through hell as anyone paying attention  knows, just by looking around and having ears to hear, and eyes to see…

I believe in the power of prayer, or meditation, or however someone dedicates a space in their life to “Be still and know…” It’s effectiveness is as a spiritual feeding time, for filling ourselves with the understanding of who we are and enjoying the gratitude of receiving insights in response. It is a necessary, interactive mental activity to understand what our best role is in being God’s hands in our corner of the world.

God is Love, and is a fundamental part of who we all are; that force inside every mentally and spiritually healthy human being that makes us feel better when we’re truly loving than when we’re hating, or fearing, or worrying. There have been and continue to be many great teachers of that truth and many paths to follow to fulfill it in the world, probably as many different paths as there are those trying to follow. My path has not been the straightest nor has it needed to be, it just needs to be intentional, my daily challenge.

Keep me honest.

 

A blog nobody reads is a diary…

Well said, by my oldest daughter Emily.  So splashing out a bit.  Started this blog in 2012 while at Rackspace as a stretch for myself.  Stretch I did, once every 2 years or so – SO me.  But to what’s important…

I worshipped on the treadmill this morning, pretty sure that was fine with God.  Can only do that thanks to the grace of God, followed very distantly by The Police and Tom Petty.  Always end with my Sunday morning playlist though, having refocused on what I need to go do in the world.  Because God is about doing, not about thinking about doing. God is good, but you can’t just pray / meditate – you have to DO something.  Go out and do something today.  To quote Jewel in one of my favorite Sunday songs “We are God’s hands.”

I miss my Dad, but I carry with me always his words of advice – ‘Got to be willing to vote with your feet’.  He was a godly man. That was in response to years of listening patiently to my bending his ear about work – and as in a lot of things – he was right.  Not all things, but a lot of things.  I miss him but I carry him with me in my heart, as do my children, among many others.  That’s the beauty of the universe.

Now off to spend some Sunday with my oldest, dearest friends – friends I’m so glad I got to know before the age of camera phones and social media.  Whew.

Happy Sunday!

 

10 Minute Musings – #1

10 minutes being the time it takes an egg to boil to perfection on an Induction cooktop brought to a boil at P, and then lowered to 8, and consequently the time I had to write this post.  In case you were wondering…

Years ago a dear friend of mine once made me aware of the book title “Your God is Too Small”, by J.B. Phillips.  I had never read it before, but I liked the concept and it fit with the conversation we were having at the time, one of the many she and I have shared over the years that I have truly cherished.  The more I’ve explored over the past few years though, the more I have come to believe that my God is too BIG.  And by that I mean, too big for any one faith tradition (Christianity, Judaism, Buddhism, Islam, Hinduism, etc.), or none at all.

Because I believe that God is love, literally.  God is the force that binds all of creation together in a way that makes us sing internally when we are mindfully, lovingly, sharing of ourselves – with all other living things, including our physical surroundings – the earth, and by extension – the universe.  To tie God down to a given faith tradition is too limiting, and I believe as the world becomes far more interconnected, through travel and technology, it doesn’t serve humanity well.

More to come…

It’s Not Complicated

I’ve come to the conclusion that we’ve made Christianity, and faith in general, way too complicated.  Which means we’ve made it hard for some people to understand, maybe many people, even those who’ve been brought up in the Christian faith tradition their entire lives.  I know a lifelong Christian who likes to say that Christianity is “a thinking man’s religion”; he also likes to say that there are no contradictions in today’s Bible.  This same person has devoted a good portion of his adult life to studying and teaching the Bible.  I believe you would certainly have to buy into that first assertion to begin to wrap your head around the second one, but I’ve decided they are both wrong.  Christianity is based on Jesus’ example of  the perfect Godly life.  He came to be that tangible example for us, which leads to the conclusion that a life lived in accordance with his example was supposed to be doable, at least theoretically.  He spent a good portion of his ministry telling stories, fables more or less, just to create very concrete, simple examples of what he wanted us to understand.

So it’s not complicated.  I have to say I wasn’t a big fan of the WWJD movement when it first started; I guess I thought it somehow trivialized Christianity, and all of the tradition behind it.  I’ve done my share of Bible study, and have always loved the liturgy that is part of traditional Protestant church services.  Even now I’d rather attend a traditional service than the more recent contemporary versions, just for the reminder of the tradition of the faith.  But now I think WWJD might have been a little too early for its time, is elegant in its simplicity, and what we should head back to ASAP.

Christianity really is quite simple – it had to be for basic humans, with all of our limitations, to grasp, and then to live.  Jesus summed it up when he said “Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and mind, and love your neighbor as yourself.”  When asked to clarify neighbor, he gave us the timeless example of The Good Samaritan – just to make it clear what was being asked.  Those two commandments, and the explanation of exactly who our neighbor is, was all that needed to be understood, and followed.

 It’s simple, but it’s not easy.  It’s really hard at times – and that is also the point.  It requires the best of the gifts that our Creator gave us all – our hearts, and our minds – because the world is constantly evolving.  Our Creator made sure of it.  And so our faith has to continue to evolve with it. 

It’s not complicated.

A remarkable life

This week I attended a memorial service for the father of one of my dearest friends.   The service was at times solemn but probably more times humorous, and was in complete keeping with the life of the man being honored – a life well lived, by a man of great knowledge, integrity, and faith, that left its mark on his community – a very well known university in a relatively small Southern town.

As it turns out one of those marked lives was mine; as my Organic Chemistry professor during my freshman year – entirely as a result of my own doing, of course – his class set me off on a path quite different than the road through medical school that I had planned.   In spite of the fact that I was just one of hundreds of students he taught each year, he had taken the time that year to repeatedly ask his daughter (another freshman in my dorm, and a new-found friend) whether I was studying, when of course I should have been but wasn’t, or whether I needed help. While she would always pass along his concern she was kind enough to cover for me; or maybe, it occurs to me now, she was really just being kind to her Dad, since she knew he genuinely cared.  In the end Organic didn’t work out so well for me but regardless of that history, or maybe because of it, I had often thought about visiting with him over the past thirty years just to reconnect and let him know how I was doing.  Somehow I never made the time, aside from a brief conversation at her 50th birthday party.  Which is the point of this post…

While his memorial service last Wednesday was easily the most uplifting one I have ever attended, I found myself weeping at the end.  Not for my friend, his daughter, but for myself – for the missed opportunity to have spent time with someone so remarkable, who, in the midst of a very full life, cared a great deal about me and my progress.  And not that I was special – it was clear listening to the tribute that he cared deeply about all of his students, his colleagues, and his community in general.  So add to the list of wise and faithful – truly giving, and kind.  How many people like that do you cross paths with in life, really?  It occurred to me as we sang the closing hymn – not so very many…

I know life is short, but how do you make sure that you prioritize your time so that, if you’re lucky enough to come across them, you spend time with them, learn from them, and at least put yourself in the position to possibly give something back??

Welcome

Hello!  This blog is my attempt at a new way to give something back, if only my thoughts about things… Hopefully it will often be thought provoking, and maybe fairly often simply amusing, but either way – I can tell myself I’m casting a thought out to the universe… kind of like a prayer…

Welcome…